Welcome to Lifestyle Refined Inspiration
A present-focused lifestyle blog where balance, beauty, and intentional living meet. In my world, passion fuels creativity, and every moment becomes a story worth sharing.
I’m Margarita aka Mai a writer with over 25 years of experience, an East Coast native turned West Coast dreamer with a lifelong love of fashion and refined living My journey blends the bold rhythm of city and suburban life with the stillness and splendor of the Santa Rosa and San Jacinto Mountains.
Lifestyle Refined is inspired by energy, elevated by presence, and grounded in joy.
Embracing a Refined, Balanced Lifestyle
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Above all, my mission extends beyond fashion. Lifestyle Refined is a space devoted to cultivating a more intentional way of living, one rooted in fullness, clarity, and presence.

Through my own journey, I’ve discovered the beauty of aligning each moment with the life I truly wish for. With this intention, we’ll explore how to elevate everyday experiences while staying grounded in authenticity and purpose.
Fashion, for me, is more than an industry, it’s an ever-evolving love story. A form of artful expression, a spirit of discovery, and a timeless link between personal style and the world around us. At my wonderfully refined age (yes, lol), I embrace life and style with a vibrant, fearless spirit. I am fully aware that neither fashion nor living well comes with an expiration date.
Discovering a Refined, Balanced, and Lifestyle
Through my lens, you’ll discover captivating stories that bring fashion trends to life. I celebrate the beauty of timeless classics and reveal the inspiration behind each garment. But beyond fashion, this space offers thoughtful insights and practical tips to help you live a life aligned with your values and aspirations. So whether you’re a seasoned fashion girly, a lifestyle explorer, or simply someone seeking fresh inspiration, there’s a place here for you.
Lifestyle Refined is more than fashion, it’s a destination for insight, intention, and elevated living. Here, you’ll discover meaningful tips and reflections to help you align your daily life with your highest values and aspirations. Sit back relax try my new fav drink, lavender infused lemonade.

Whether you’re a devoted fashion enthusiast, a seeker of intentional living, or simply someone drawn to beauty, travel , health and inspiration, this space was created for you.